Sunday, April 25, 2010

Back to Normal

It has been a great two weeks. Auburn has almost fully recovered, which is a huge surprise to me. I was worried Auburn would not react well to the amputation of her right front leg. I thought she'd be immobile, unable to use her dog-door, and nothing like her old self. I was completely wrong. The doctor explained before the surgery that following the removal of her leg that was both broken and cancerous, Auburn would be pain free. Bone cancer is extremely painful, which is why Auburn was limping prior to breaking her leg (we thought it was arthritis). The doctor said Auburn would (of course) be sore following the loss of the leg, but in one-two weeks following surgery, she'd be back to her old self. I'm happy to report Auburn is just like the dog she always was. She uses her dog door, sleeps on the couch, wags her little nub-tail when we take her for an abbreviated walk, and barks at dogs out the window. Obviously she doesn't get around as good as a four-legged dog. But her eyes are bright and cheery, her ears perk up when she hears our voices, and she's back to begging for table scraps, so she must be feel ok. Here are some pictures. First, her good side. Can't really tell she's missing a leg in this picture, can you?Now for the other side. Her hair is starting to come back, but you can still see the massive incision. A neighbor took out the stitches yesterday, and everything looks great. We've been doing a lot of traveling for work. It seems like one of us is gone every week, so come weekends, the non-traveler is usually catching up on sleep and resting, because Bode is quite active. He loves to play with his trucks, which is great, but unfortunately, the trucks are more suited to a person his size. When Mommy and Daddy get down on our (old) knees, it certainly takes a toll as we chase after our exceedingly fast son. Bode also loves the digital camera. He really knows how to work it. He can put it in display mode and scroll through the pictures. He's even figured out how to make the camera do an automated slide show to music. But I think taking pictures is what he likes best. In April alone, he's taken over 400 pictures (mostly of the floor), but there are the occasional good shots. Here's a dorky one of Mommy...I laugh every time I look at this picture. Bode is also talking up a storm. I'd estimate that 90% of the time, we know what he's saying (or trying to say). When we travel, Bode will even talk on the phone. His words are really clear, and he even knows he's talking to Mommy or Daddy. It's not really a conversation--he says, "Hi Mommy," a lot, but he'll also answer some questions about his day and what he had for dinner. It's really nice to hear his voice when we're away from home. He's still napping, although sometimes he doesn't really sleep. He'll go to his room for "quiet time" on the weekends. He seems to enjoy it. We'll ask if he's ready for quiet time and he'll say, "Yes." We take him to his room and then he says, "Bye Mommy. Bye Daddy," and proceeds to shut his bedroom door as we leave (a boy needs his privacy). A lot of times, he'll play and then take a nap, but lately, he's just been playing. This is fine, but usually he'll be sleepy later in the day. Here was Bode one evening that he didn't nap. Little fellow zonked out right in front of the computer.Spring is in full swing, although it might be in the low 50's early this week. Otherwise, nothing too exciting going on here. Pleasant day to all.

Saturday, April 10, 2010

The Tripawd

Thursday was a very very bad day in our home. I took the day off to take Auburn to the vet. She's been limping and was diagnosed with arthritis in her ankle. We were going in for some routine blood work associated with the painkillers. When we arrived at the vet's office, Auburn was very excited. I opened the back of the X-terra, and she jumped right out. She landed, and immediately started screaming and yelping. It wasn't just one simple yelp. It was a series of horrific wounded animal cries. Fortunately, we were at the vet, so I managed to get her inside. She would not put any weight on her right front leg. It hung meekly at her side, and she whelped if we touched or moved it. The vet checked her, couldn't find a break, but recommended x-rays. I said, fine, obviously there's something wrong, so let's figure out what it is.

I received the dreaded phone call later that afternoon. Auburn had broken her right front leg up near the shoulder. It was a solid break, which meant whenever she moved, bones would rub together and cause tremendous pain. The bone broke because she has bone cancer, which made the bone appear moth-eaten on her x-rays. This break would never heal. There were two options: amputation or euthanasia. Our vet doesn't do amputations, and she didn't really think Auburn would be a good candidate for it, but she referred us to a clinic in Cincinnati. Thursday night was just awful. I really believed we'd have to put Auburn down in the morning because she was in constant pain. The vet even gave us a limited supply of pain killers because she felt Auburn's time was so short. Friday morning, we got Auburn up and into the car (a neighbor helped). She would whimper occasionally on the drive down. It was very somber.

The vet looked at her x-rays, examined Auburn, and started talking about amputation. There were other options--we could wait for a bone biopsy--two weeks, which would be two weeks of agony for Auburn, so we agreed that wasn't possible. He told us three-legged dogs actually do quite well. We were very concerned about her quality of life. Could she go on walks? Would she be happy and want to play? He made no promises, but in his experience, the dogs bounce back rather quickly. She'll immediately be free of the pain due to the broken bone and the arthitis in her ankle. She'd be sore due to the surgery (obviously), but dogs are quick recovereres. He pulled no punches and said Auburn might only live another year. The cancer may have spread (they saw nothing, but microscopically, it could be everywhere). Ashley and I decided to have her leg amputated. We hope it's not selfishness on our part; I'm sure there's some it, as we had to put Dudley down less than a year ago. But euthanasia is so final--there's no going back on that decision. With the amputation route, at least we'll know we gave Auburn a fighting chance.

She had the surgery yesterday, and I picked her up this afternoon. I'm amazed this is the same dog we took down there Thursday morning. Before, she would hardly move, let alone walk. I expected them to wheel Auburn out to me. Instead, the door opens, and she comes hopping through. She's a little wobbly, but the staff all said she'd be sure-footed in less than a week. We have some post-op care to do--pain medicines, antibiotics, and cold compresses. But we all think it'll be worth it.

Here's a picture of Auburn. She looks a little scary, because they had to shave a lot of her side to do the surgery. Plus, it's quite a large incision. But she seems to be feeling alright, has an appetite, and even gave Bode a couple kisses. I'm off to feed Auburn. Hopefully she eats, and then sleeps for twelve hours, which was her routine when she had four legs, so it shouldn't be hard for her to do. Pleasant day to all.

The Great Hunt*

We had a nice little Easter. Nothing extravagant, but Mommy did set up a cool Easter Egg Hunt for the Bode-man. Keep in mind he is only two, so she didn't hide the eggs in extreme hiding places. For the most part, they were in plain site, but it was still a joy to see Bode get excited whenever he saw an egg. Here are some photos. First, we have a couple of action shots of Bode grabbing eggs. Next, we have a happy Bode holding and shaking his new-found egg. The eggs we used were the plastic kind. Ashley had put tiny chocolate eggs inside them, so they would rattle whenever Bode would shake them (which he did often).
Here's a picture of Bode with a full basket, heading back to the house to gorge on his feed courtesy of the cocoa bean.Finally, a neat little movie of Bode getting a well-hid egg.

We've had a difficult last few days. I thought I'd warn you because the next few posts may be a little disheartening, but certainly not as bad as they could have been...you'll understand more when you read tomorrow's entry. Until then, pleasant day to all.

*Apologies to Robert Jordan, as he has a novel with the same title.

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Two is My Limit

What am I talking about? Drinks? Dogs? Mortgages? No. Yesterday, I learned two is the maximum number of times in one day one should be vomited upon. More than twice, and the whole "being thrown up on" experience tends to go downhill.

Sadly, Bode was sick. We were called at 1130 in the morning to pick him up. He had a fever of 101.3 and had thrown up. Since Ashley is a prima-donna (actually she had people in town for meetings), I was the lucky one that got to go and get the little guy. He seemed ok--a little more clingy than usual, but nothing too out of the ordinary. We got home, he had some blueberries and some peanut butter, and then took a nap. This sick-kid thing wasn't too much work. He woke up from his nap, and we read some books. He was quiet, and then he started crying. And then...well, no need to be gross and explain in exquisite detail. Let's just say Bode thought the shirt I had on (as well as the couch and carpet) were a bit too clean. He had similar episodes for the next two hours. Fortunately, around dinner time he started to feel better and was able to hold down liquids and some bread. This morning, he was back to normal, so we headed off to daycare. I was unaware of their 24-hour fever free policy, meaning the kids aren't welcome back until they've been fever free for said length of time. So we stopped by my office for a few minutes, and then we came back home. At first I was a bit bummed out about daycare's refusal to accept Bode today, which meant I had to stay home. However, it's a beautiful spring day with the high in the low 70's. We took Auburn for a walk, had a nice lunch, and now Bode is taking a nap. And since the work I do can't be done outside of the office, it's like a day off (all funded by the taxpayers :-) Maybe I'll go open a can of bon-bons and sit outside...

Below is a movie of Ashley reading Goodnight Moon to Bode. This is the last story he hears before he goes to bed, and he has much of it memorized.

Pleasant day to all.

Sunday, March 28, 2010

A Bode Blog

Wow, I can't believe Daddy is letting me do this. Usually all I'm allowed to do at the computer is watch those d*mn Wiggles on youtube. It's not that I don't enjoy it, but there are a lot more interesting videos that I'd like to watch (I've seen some of these on Tosh.O, but Daddy usually pauses the TV when he realizes I'm watching...)

Well, as you might imagine, I have a pretty good life, although it can be a bit dull. Usually I rely on Mommy and Daddy for entertainment on the weekends. However, both seemed too busy to play with me today. Don't believe me, you say? Well that's why I figured out how to use this camera--to obtain proof of their (lack of) parenting skills. When I went looking for Mommy, here's what she was doing.Note how her back is to me, not even paying attention. Not only that, notice my E-M-P-T-Y sippy cup. What's a little man have to do to get a drink around here? Obviously a lot, as Mommy igorned my pleas for a drink and shoed me away. Fortunately (I thought), Daddy would want to play. And he was playing when I found him. Playing the piano. Again I tried to get him to come play WITH ME but much like Mommy, I was shunned.I went looking for Auburn--boy's best friend, right? Lazy bitch just wanted to lie there and lick her paws. So I ask you there in webland: Does anyone want to come play with me?

Spring has Sprought

Life has chugged forward, with great progress being made in some areas, while others it's been situation normal. First and foremost, Bode has been speaking. A lot. It would appear the vocal part of his genome is pure Rankin. Lots of words, lots of sentences. He spoke his first complete thought that was grammatically correct awhile ago. It was, "I don't like that, Daddy." I imagine it won't be the last time I'll hear that phrase. He'll say all sorts of things--what he wants to eat, what he wants to do, he'll ask, "Mommy, where are you?" and go looking for her. What's even neater is the little dude is developing a memory. For example, the other day we were getting into the car to go to work. Bode asks, "We going to Boonshoft?" Recall the Boonshoft is this wonderful kid's museum where Bode has tons and tons of fun. We didn't know he knew the name of the place. He asked on a number of occasions if we were going to "Boonshoft", so we felt we ought to oblige him. Here are some action photos. As soon as we get there, Bode immediately headed to the water play area. He loves it.There was some sort of promotion at the museum. As part of it, there were these giant stuffed animals roaming around. Bode didn't know exactly what to make of them. The first was some lady bug / bumble bee mix.The next was the mascot for the Dayton Dragons, a local minor league team. Bode was wary at first, but as soon as the mascot called for five (the universally acknowledged greeting for all two-year olds), Bode warmed up him.As always, the beauty of the Boonshoft is Bode is usually worn out when we get home. I left him on the couch where he was reading. It got awfully quiet, and when I checked on him, he was out cold.Overall, Bode is doing great. He doesn't have any interest in potty-training. We'll ask if he wants to go sit on the potty. His one word response: "No," period, end of discussion.

Ashley and I just came off three weeks of opposing travel. I was in Atlanta, then she was in DC, and then I was in California. We're both home this week (I think), so we'll have time to catch up and see how each other is doing :-) Pleasant day to all.

Sunday, February 28, 2010

Winter Vacation: Part IV

While in Breckenridge, we stayed in a great condo about 100 yards from the gondola. The gondola will take anyone to the base of peak 7 or peak 8. After we skied on Wednesday, we took the Little Dude up the gondola. He loved the ride (thank heavens Jaws didn't attack us--reference the movie Moonraker if you don't get the joke). Here's a picture of Mommy and Bode.

Bode really enjoyed it when we crossed over the gears and the car bumped up and down. Here's a video.
While on this trip, Bode learned how to use our digital camera. For a long time, he has enjoyed holding the camera and looking at the stored pictures. He has now figured out how to switch the camera mode from 'view pictures' to 'take pictures,' and he has also figured out how to actually take a photograph. I realized Bode had a new skill set when I was scrolling through the store images and there were 100 pictures of random things (yes, one hundred). Here are some of Bode's best shots--we have a budding Ansel Adams on our hands. First a blurry shot of Mommy.Next, a self-portrait.My favorite that Bode took is the following. It's a shot of the three of us watching the Olympics. That's his little foot in the middle, my bare feet are on the right, and Ashley's socked feet are on the left. We spent our final night in Colorado in Denver at Kathy and Dave's place. Bode was able to spend some more quality time with his two Rankin cousins, Teddy and Charlie.
That about does it for our winter holiday. We both go back to work tomorrow. The weather is a bit warmer today (in the low 30's), so spring is near. Pleasant week to all.